Is your posture like a question mark?

Literally...Do you feel more and more shaped like a question mark the more time you spend at your computer?

And figuratively...Has resolving it become a frustrating mystery???

The trick to figuring out your posture woes is to get inside the mystery by improving your body awarness....

(which is different from pulling your shoulders back or incessantly checking in the mirror).

If you've ever read or watched a detective story, the detective will try to get into the shoes of the culprit and the victim...and in this episode...The Case of Your Posture...YOU are both the culprit and the victim!

Da da dummmm.....

Something you're doing all day (or a lot of the day) is causing strain in your body ....and how exactly it happens may not be clear.

Or maybe you have some idea, but you're not sure how to prevent it.

If you'd like to get to the bottom of The Case of Your Posture, consider taking some lessons.

You'll to improve body awareness and learn simple exercises that make changing your posture maneageable!

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Is the structure of your day wreaking havoc on your posture?

Has going from one place to another become jumping from one Zoom meeting to the next? Has a stroll become a walk from the kitchen to the living room?

You might be deliberate about taking long walks or have a regular work-out routine, but have the naturally built-in parts of your day when you switch gears dissapeared?

The pandemic has changed the structure of workspaces for many people, but it's also changed the structure of the day.

Poor posture is a state that we get in, a mode of sorts. So is good posture. If you spend most of the day in a poor posture mode, then even your best posture might not be so great.

Part of what can keep us from getting stuck in a slumped, crouched, tense mode that is changing activities. Transitioning to something new more frequently gives the body a chance to do something different, which can also affect your breathing, your mind, and your stress level.

With fewer transition moments, you might find that you don't have build in time to reset your body duirng the day.

Some or all of these transitions may have been reduced, aren't happening at all...or are happening online...jumping in and out of online meetings or classrooms. Now more than ever, we're switching from one thing to the next with the click of a mouse.

So where does that leave us? Do our bodies like this? And how can we make a change given the circumstances?

Two things you can do weather the changes with more ease and better posture are to...

1) Make time for small breaks.
Do something off the screen.
If you don't have time for a walk, clean or organize something just so you'll move differently.
Practice a hobby or learn a new skill.
Put on some music and dance.
Lie on the floor.
Meditate.

2) Learn how to manage your screen time and Zoomania with body awareness and good posture.
Notice what happens to your body when you focus on the screen, on a person's face, or on many peoples' faces.
Observe if you strain or speak unecessarily louly when you talk online. It messes with our depth perception so you might be talking as if the person is "way over there".
Do you keep your feet on the floor?
Do you tend to hold your breath?
Are you aware of your body at all?
Observation is the first step toward change.

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Body Awareness: The key to good posture and confident communication

Have you ever made an observation about your posture, breathing, voice, or how you move? Or maybe someone else has shared something they observed about you. If so, did you try to fix it?

Have you ever noticed something about yourself in certain social situations or having to speak in front of a group or in Zoom meetings that you'd like to change, but you're not sure how?

I first took an Alexander Technique class when studying acting in college and it revolutionized my ability to observe myself and make changes to my posture, movement, and vocal habits...but prior to that I'd suffered two long years of instructions, feedback, and constructive critizism and I had no clear sense as to how to put any of it into effect. Here are some examples...

What I was told: Your voice is too high. You need to speak from your belly.
How I tried to fix it: I pushed into my belly and lowered my voice with a lot of effort and tension, speaking in a forced lower tone. I practiced vocal exercises meant to free my voice, but only felt hoarse and exausted after doing them.

What I was told: You're holding your shoulders up all the time.
How I tried to fix it: I pressed my shoulders down and held them there for several days, trying to be a good student. It was painful, brought be to tears, and wasn't something I could maintain.

What I was told: You're not in the moment.
How I tried to fix it: By focusing really hard. The narrow focusing took me more out of the moment. I had moments of "being in the moment", but the concept was elusive and mysterious and I couldn't figure it out for myself.

Instead of trying harder, I eventually realized that I had to try differently.

When I started taking Alexander Technique classes, I discovered that the solution to changing my posture, voice, habits, and solving the mystery of "being in the moment" had to do with body awareness. As my body awareness improved, I could feel what I needed to do to change things so that I could try better not just harder. For example, I started practicing vocal exercises again and they were helpful this time because I was able to sense how to do them correctly without causing additional strain.

Clear body awareness is key when trying to change a habit or learn something new. Trying to change physical habits without it is a bit like trying to color coordinate your outfit with your eyes closed.

I think most people can relate to my experience attempting to "fix" myself in acting school. On the stage of life, one of the most common reasons that people tend to want to fix their posture is to improve how they come across to others. They'd like to feel and appear more confident, relaxed, centered, and also assertive, but without seeming pushy.

One of the most common "posture fixes" I see is pulling the shoulders back, which usually makes the person stiff and tense with shallow breathing...resulting in coming across as ackward, or trying to hard.

What people tend to find challenging is that once they start talking or listening, they lose all sense of what their body is doing. Sensing your body as you do things (like have a conversation) doesn't have to feel like some kind of impossible multitask. It just takes guidance and practice.

Here's how you can start working on it right now. Next time you speak with someone (online or in person), see if you can notice the sensation of your feet on the floor at the same time. If you're lounging on your couch, then notice the feeling of your back or your bottom on the couch. You might find that your mind toggles between the feeling of your body and your attention on the other person. That's to be expected, but by simply being more mindful and practicing being aware of your body during an activity, you're laying the foundation for changing habits.

Posture and Seeing

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Today I went running in the snow and at one point it was really coming down and blowing directly in my face. I was squinting through the snowy haze and couldn't see more than a few feet in front of me. At first this was mildly annoying, but after a minute or two it was very pleasant feeling, as if I were running in a snow globe that was moving along with me and that I'd lost all sense of where I was headed. I felt relaxed and like all sense of effort left my body. I've often had this experience running in rain or snow. It makes me forget where I'm going and just be present in the sensations of the moment.

By seeing less with my eyes, I was more fully aware with all of my senses, which helped my posture, form, and breathing, I was more relaxed and in the moment.

In contrast to running up a wooded snowy mountain, I've often run along the water in Brooklyn on a sunny day when I can see miles of open space ahead of me. I'm not knocking the view. It makes for nice photographs, but I generally find that my running suffers if I see to far ahead. It becomes all about where I'm going rather than where I am.

FM Alexander, founder of The Alexander Technique used a term he called "end-gaining"...bascially meaning getting ahead of yourself, anticipating, or pushing to get "there" before you're there.

What we see can be a very strong stimulus to "end-gain", which isn't just an idea or mental state, it's a phsyical thing we do that we often call "bad posture"... a way of ancipating with tension and strain... that can affect how we walk, run, pick things up, sit, use our computers and phones, and how we connect with and communiate with others.

We look with our eyes and we react rather than staying in the moment and responding one step at a time.

I loved the centered, relaxed, running in a snow globe feeling. I was on the path. No danger of getting lost, but I didn't feel the familiar pull of looking for the next landmark, pulling myself a bit to try to get there faster so I could stop sooner. I didn't want to stop because I didn't feel any strain and I didn't feel any strain because I wasn't looking for and pushing for the next thing...but I was still on the path passing all of the same landmarks.

Clearly, seeing is very useful, but when we let it dominate at every waking moment, our posture and well-being can suffer. How would your sense of well-being changed if you worked a little less hard to see ahead of you? If you waited an extra half-second before looking at your phone or your computer screen? If you took a moment sense your feet on the ground before speaking?

If you have a little more time to observe yourself over the holidays, try pausing before doing every day things. Notice if you're perpetually being driven forward by what you see or moving the way you move just because you always do it that way. Take a moment to sense your body...a good place to start is sensing your feet on the ground. Pay attention to your other senses as well. What do you smell and hear? How does your clothing, the rain, or snow feel on your skin? Make a point to tune into sensations other than just what you see and then "see" if you feel more present.

Interested in learning more and getting personalized instruction? I'm currently offering 1:1 virutal sessons as well as group classes.

What's Worse than Slouching? Trying to "fix" your posture

When you think of poor posture, do you think of slouching? It's what we tend to notice and it's what most folks want to fix.

If you try to fix slouching by pulling your shoulders back and lifting your chest all day...then you're just creating another postural problem that could lead to more tension and back pain. The posture "quick fix" doesn't really fix poor posture and may even be worse than slouching.

If you spend a lot of your day sitting at a desk, looking at a screen, your head neck and shoulders might get locked into a slump, all triggered by the way you're positioning yourself for hours on end to look at the screen and to reach for the keyboard and mouse.

If you were doing more things during the day that required looking and reaching in other directions, changing positons often, and having to be more aware of what was going on all around you, your posture would probably be different. You might have more mobility in the shoulders, neck and back without having to try to pull them into a another position to try to have good posture...that just feels tense. Good posture could actually feel relaxed and balanced.

Variety of movement, awareness of your body, and changing where you put your focus can all help. Here are some simple ways to start changing that, particularly if you're working from home or spending more time than usual at home.

1 - Shift your workspace - If you always work in the same space, find 2 or 3 spaces that you can work in. Put a laptop on a counter top and spend part of the day standing. If you're on the couch all the time, set yourself up at a table. You don't have to give up the couch, just mix it up. And here's a tip for your desk chair and your couch...Try placing a pillow behind your back.

2 - Take breaks and vary your movement (and clean your home at the same time) - Reorganize your kitchen, bookcases, closet...not only will you tidy up your home, but you'll have an opportunity to reach and squat. Everyday household tasks can be used as a work break to help you vary your movement. Favor more frequent work breaks to avoid long uninterrupted periods looking at the screen.

3 - Shift your attention - Listen to sounds in your home or outside to keep your focus from being 100% on the screen, your dishes, or whatever you happen to be focusing on.

4 - Improve your body awareness - The easiest way to start is often with the feet. Notice the feeling of your feet on the floor when you're standing or sitting. Notice what parts of your feet contact the floor the most.

5 - Reset - Lie on the floor in the semi-suppine position (knees up, feet flat) with your head supported by a rolled up towel or some books. This is a great daily practice for helping to let go of tension in the neck, back, and shoulders. Here's an audio guide that you can try on my website to guide you through it.

Interested in learning more and getting personalized instruction? I'm currently offering 1:1 virutal sessons as well as group classes.

Posture & Body Laguage: Tips for communicating during the pandemic

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Improving posture can help allivate back pain, improve your breathing, and your ability to focus. Posture also affects how we come across to others

In a recent article in Town and Country that I was interviewed for, writer, Garrett Munce, his the nail on the head in regards to the side of posture that is social and how it relates to the world at present. "Posture is especially important today, when we communicate virtually or through masks that block our faces," Munce points out.

Posture has a significant effect how we communicate. Our often unconscious postural hobits can affect how we come across. Have you ever caught a photo or video of yourself and were surprised to see how you were holding your body or moving? Many people are because they might not be aware of their habits in the moment when their not just sitting, standing, and walking, but communicating with others.

Now that we're communicating differently, posture is often even more obvious. With a mask covering some of your facial expression, the rest of your body language may communicate even more.

When you're on Zoom, how you sit is important to how you speak with someone on a screen. Many people crane their necks, move their faces toward the screen, and speak much more loudly than they need to, all creating a lot of tension and strain, which can affect breathing, and vocal expression, and effect the impression the person makes..

Here's one tip that you can use on Zoom and at the grocery store when you're trying to speak to someone through a mask and plexiglass while maintaining social distancing...

Don't push your face forward.

Pushing your face forward strains your neck and makes your head rotate back and down and compress your spine. Not sure what I mean? Look in a mirror from the side.

Why is this a problem? Here are a few reasons:
1. It creates strain and too much tension in your neck and possibly your shoulders as well.
2. It won't make you louder. It's more likely to strain your voice and make you hoarse.
3. You won't be centered. When we're physically centered, we come across as both calm and assertive, and not agressive, rushed, or discombobulated.

Being centered creates a better connection with other people. It might free up your breathing and maybe in turn the breathing of the person your speaking with (people often mirror each other). You might find it's easier to listen and to make yourself heard.

When we're centered our posture is good, which means not stiff or collapsed. Being centered doesn't mean holding one position. It means standing, sitting, and moving in a way that is balanced.

What helps? Don't focus too much on adjusting your head or neck. Avoid pushing your neck back and overstraightening it. Make the change more subtle. Before you go to speak, just think of letting the back of your neck soften.

Posture Tips for Waiting On Line

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With early voting in full-swing here in NYC, this week's theme is posture while waiting in line! Whether you're waiting to get into the supermaket or at the polls, here are a few tips to help you feel more upright, comfortable, and energized.

Shift it - If you think good posture means that you should stand perfectly still and aligned all the time, think again! Good posture is dynamic and if you're standing for awhile, it's fine to shift your weight. Just think about how you're doing it. For example, if you always shift to one side, try shifting to the other side. See if you can make the shift smaller or move more slowly into the next position. See if you can shift to the side, forward, or back without sinking down in your body. Try placing one foot slightly in front of the other and make small shifts back and forth between the two feet. Again, try not to sink down.

Up on the toes - Standing in line can be tiring and maybe you don't feel like you have the energy to stand up taller...so literally make yourself taller for a moment. Go up on your toes a few times and then slowly come back down (if you don't have trouble balancing). As you slowly bring your heels down, picture the top of your head point up (just picture it, don't pull your head in any direction.) And don't hold your breath! See if you feel taller and more energized.

Look around - If you keep your gaze low, you'll likely lower your head and keep it there. Raise your gaze a little higher. Take in your surroundings. See and hear what's around you.

Avoid the smart phone slump - Are you keeping busy on your smart phone while waiting? Try these two things to avoid the smart phone slump...1) When you lift the phone, don't lean your back backwards, just lift your hand and arm. 2) When looking down at the phone, don't drop your head. Instead, gently tip your chin to look down.

Try out these strategies and let me know if they make your wait a little more comfortable and if you feel a bit more alert!

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Posture & Sleep Tips for the Non-Morning Person

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I'm not a morning person. 

Like many thought, I've adapted to a lifestyle where "the day" starts at 8am, meaning getting up at 6am.  I don't like this, but I do it, which means I set my alarm for 5:45 and get up at 6:15, giving myself the illusion of having gotten more sleep, but really what I got was more time in bed awake noticing myself still in bed.  

I could set my alarm for 6am and actually get 15 minutes more sleep...or set it for 6:15 and get up at 6:15 and get 30 minutes more sleep, but somehow that seems more painful.  I need at least 15-30 minutes of time still in bed waking up, feeling that I'm in bed half asleep, but aware that I'm half asleep and in bed.  This awareness of being in bed and sleepy somehow gives me the courage to sit up, put my feet on the floor and head for the kitchen.  

For the past few months, since I haven't had to do more than nudge my kids around 8:30 to jump into their online classes, I've actually been fulfilliing my non-morning person dream.  

Taking more time to wake up, I realized that I still don't feel particularly chipper in the morning, even with more sleep, but on the up side I do acknowledge that at age 40 I feel much better than I did at age 20.  I'll credit that to learning the Alexander Technique and dealing with a lot of tension and imbalace in my body, much of which I attribute to scoliosis and having worn a back brace through my teens.  Sometimes I feel like I'm tensing my body unconsciously in order to feel like I'm wearing a brace.  Why would I do this?  No good reason other than ingrained habit.  I admit though that I've come a long way. 

Many of my clients ask me about sleep.  Sleep is tricky as we're not conscious when we're sleeping.  Many people notice or suspect sleep habits that affect their posture and well-being during the day.  I can all too well relate, so I've put together a list here of common issues and ways to trouble-shoot them. 

Tense neck, shoulders, or jaw - Choose a pillow height that keeps your head from dropping down below your shoulders if you're on your back or side, but isn't so high that your chin is pulling toward your chest.  You may need a higher pillow if you're sleeping on your side.

Tense shoulders - If you're a side-sleeper with tense shoulders, try placing a pillow next to you that you can rest your top arm on so that your shoulder doesn't drop and may be less likely to pull up/forward.

Twisting hips - If you're a side-sleeper, your top leg may pull your top hip down and lead to some compression in the lower back.  Try placing a pillow between your knees to prevent this twist.

Overall tension/restlessness/mind-racing - Do something to help you relax and connect to your body before going to sleep.  You could try lying on the floor and listening to my free audio guide for releasing tension and improving body awareness or listen to a guided meditation that you enjoy.  Even if you can't control what you do while you're sleeping, you can set yourself up to begin your night in a more relaxed state with calm breathing.

To return to my own journey, I'm not sure if I'll ever be a "morning person", but I've learned how to improve the quality of my sleep in order to feel better in the morning and more alert throughout the day...and I've found that if I use some time at night of just being aware of myself lying down and getting sleepy (what I like to do when I'm waking up!) that I tend to sleep better.

Better Posture when Using Your Hands

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When you think of improving posture, do you think about your hands?  

Commonly posture is thought of as the way we hold ourselves up, but “ourselves” is often limited to our torso.

If you were to list many of the things that you do throughout the day, a good number of them would likely involve your hands.

The way you go about doing things that involve your hands has a very direct effect on your posture and how you move and these movements can often go on automatically without much thought.

That’s not necessarily a bad thing (the automatic part).  The way we sit, stand, and move needs to be on autopilot to a large degree so that we can focus on other things.  But in order to change postural and movement habits, we can switch from autopilot to manual override from time to time so we can notice what’s going on and have a chance to change our habits for the better.

Here are some ways to begin to observe how you use your hands.  With the intention of simply observing, you may inadvertently find that you begin to make some positive changes.

First, choose an object to pick up.  A glass of water or a cell phone works well, but choose whatever you’d like.  Ideally it’s something that isn’t very heavy, but is heavy enough that you can clearly feel its weight.  Now, make the following observations.

  1. When you first touch the object, are you aware of sensing your hand/arm moving towards it, or are you mostly aware of seeing it and grabbing it?

  2. Where do you sense the weight of the object?  In your hand?  Shoulder?  Somewhere else?  Is it difficult to sense the weight at all?

  3. Do you feel any parts of your body tense as you pick up the object?

  4. If you’re standing do you feel any weight shift on your feet as you move your arm or pick it up?

  5. Do other parts of your body move or change position as you pick it up?

  6. Are you able to pay attention to the weight, temperature, and texture of the object?

  7. Does your breathing change when you pick it up?

Go through these steps several times.  Try pick up the object quickly and then slowly.  You may even try with your eyes closed and see if the sensation of picking it up changes.  Can you maintaining that sensation with your eyes open?

We haven’t gotten to any instructions about “how” to pick something up, but I find that the “how to” is a lot more useful if you notice what’s going on in the first place and often simply by observing, you begin to access the “how to”.

Here’s an example.  If you’re  like me, you may have a tendency to overuse my shoulders when using your hands…meaning I used to go to pick up my cup of water and I’d raise or tense my shoulder as I touched the cup or maybe even before touching it…so we could say my habit was “see object, tense shoulder.”

Slowing the process down, as an experiement, and noticing how you do it gives you a chance to interrupt your automatic response.  By stopping to sense the object more with your hand, you might realize that there is no need to tense your shoulder…or you might not be able to stop tensing your shoulder, but you can start to feel very clearly that you’re doing it.  

Zoom for Better Posture: Focusing for Positive Change

Do you ever feel like you'd have to pay attention to you posture all the time to change it?  That would be exhausting and possibly not even effective.

Paying attention is key, but what do you pay attention to and how often?

Here's one place to start...pay attention to your attention...to how you focus.

Quite a lot of positive change can happen simply by changing how you focus, but in order to change it, it might work best to start by noticing where your focus goes in the first place.  To help you get started, here are a few things you might notice...and a few tips to begin to make some changes.

1.  You're often focusing downward.  This might include looking down at your phone or computer or looking at the ground when you're walking. 
TIP:  If you are scanning the ground in front of youso that you don't trip, just scan a little farther ahead.

2.  Your attention is drawn to what you see.  Naturally we would focus on what we see in front of us.  Not a bad thing!  If all of your attention is forward or if you find yourself rushing in a forceful way, you might be pushing your face forward, lifting your chest, tilting your pelvis, or reaching really far out in front of you with your feet to pull yourself forward (when actually the back leg should naturally propell you).  TIP:  Whether you're in a rush or taking a leisurely strole, working at your computer, or responding to a text...tune in to the sounds around you and whatever else your sense pick up to help center you and bring you back to the present.

3.  You focus inward.  We might do this when thinking, planning, concentrating, or daydreaming and it is very useful at times, but if you tend toward an inward focus, notice if you also find yourself sinking down in your body, slouching, getting stiff, or breathing shallowly.  
TIP:  Make a point to observe what's around you to avoid staying in your head.  Tap the top of your head and bring your attention up to the point you tapped to remind yourself where the top of you is.  Make sure to keep breathing while you do this.

How Your Focus Can Change Your Posture

Do you ever feel like you'd have to pay attention to you posture all the time to change it?  That would be exhausting and possibly not even effective.

Paying attention is key, but what do you pay attention to and how often?

Here's one place to start...pay attention to your attention...to how you focus.

Quite a lot of positive change can happen simply by changing how you focus, but in order to change it, it might work best to start by noticing where your focus goes in the first place.  To help you get started, here are a few things you might notice...and a few tips to begin to make some changes.

1.  You're often focusing downward.  This might include looking down at your phone or computer or looking at the ground when you're walking. 
TIP:  If you are scanning the ground in front of youso that you don't trip, just scan a little farther ahead.

2.  Your attention is drawn to what you see.  Naturally we would focus on what we see in front of us.  Not a bad thing!  If all of your attention is forward or if you find yourself rushing in a forceful way, you might be pushing your face forward, lifting your chest, tilting your pelvis, or reaching really far out in front of you with your feet to pull yourself forward (when actually the back leg should naturally propell you).  TIP:  Whether you're in a rush or taking a leisurely strole, working at your computer, or responding to a text...tune in to the sounds around you and whatever else your sense pick up to help center you and bring you back to the present.

3.  You focus inward.  We might do this when thinking, planning, concentrating, or daydreaming and it is very useful at times, but if you tend toward an inward focus, notice if you also find yourself sinking down in your body, slouching, getting stiff, or breathing shallowly.  
TIP:  Make a point to observe what's around you to avoid staying in your head.  Tap the top of your head and bring your attention up to the point you tapped to remind yourself where the top of you is.  Make sure to keep breathing while you do this.

How Zoom Can Benefit Your Posture

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With increased remote work and remote learning these days, many of us are spending more time in front of the computer and online classes have suddenly become the norm.

I keep hearing people saying that they're all Zoomed out.  "Love to chat, but I've been Zooming all day." 

Like Googling, Zoom has invaded languages and is popping up as various parts of speech.  

And what does it mean to have had enough "Zoom"?...Enough time glued to the screen.  Straining to hear.  Speaking lounder than you need to.  Tuning out the rest of your environment as you focus on someone else's...maybe with a fair amount of neck, back, and shoulder pain and eye strain.

Though I would like to be able to Zoom away from Zoom sometimes, I'm finding distict benefits to running my own lessons and classes in this format...namely that I get to work with people in their own environments.

What is the #1 challenge that my clients have faced over my 13 years of teaching the Alexander Technique?  

Remembering to use what they've learned outside of lessons whe they get home or back to work and suddenly find themselves distracted by their routine.

I provide may resources for helping my clients and they do make progress in leaps and bounds, but I've always had the sense that people wanted more support...to be fast tracked into bringing their improved posture into their office, kitchen, living room...

What I'm learning through the amount of online teaching I'm doing now is how valuable this tool is to transfering what's learned in the studio into everyday life.  And once I am able to see people in person, I will continue to offer online classes and I will encourage folks I see in person to connect with me over Zoom for at least one session to help them apply what they are learning in real time in their actual space, which can give people more confidence to do it themselves.

Though there are many disadvantages to the current situation, one advantage that I've discovered is the unique value of online learning, which was certainly less apparent to me up unitl a few months ago.  My training to become an Alexader Technqiue teacher involved three years learning to teach with hands-on guidance, which is hugely valuable.  And so is Zooming!

Another advantage of taking a class on posture, body awareness, and movement over Zoom is that you learn how to Zoom better in real time with the help of a teacher.  By "Zoom better" I mean Zoom with less eye, neck, back, and shoulder strain, with better breathing, and feeling more relaxed and present.

5 Tips for Becoming a Happy Sitter

Here are 5 tips that address common questions about posture and sitting and that will lead you on the path to becoming a happy sitter!  (Though don't forget to get up and move often! :-))

1.  Use the back of the chair:  If you lean back in your chair, scoot all the way back.  Don't slide down the chair with only your upper back touch it and don't drop forward.  If you don't want to sit all the way back, or you'd prefer to perch on the edge, that's fine too.  Just make sure that if you lean back that you really use the back of the chair.  How to best make use of your chair depends on how you tend to sit and work and factors such as whether the chair is the right size for you.  If you'd like to learn more about your own sitting habits, take my quiz to find out what kind of sitter you are.  Go to my website and scroll down on the homepage.

2.  Feet on the floor:  If you don't usually keep your feet flat on the floor, try it in 5-minute increments.  It might feel better or you might feel restless and want to move your feet back to the old position.  Keeping your feet on the floor can help reduce lower back strain, but you may need some time to get used to it.  

3.  Don't hold your breath:  Often when we focus, there can be an inclination to tense up and breathe shallowly.  See if you can catch yourself doing this, and if you do, don't just take a big breath in and forget about it.  See if you can breath more naturally while you focus.  Starting to notice where you feel movement in your body when you breath is a good place to start.  You can practice this lying down or sitting back in your chair during a break if it's hard to focus on while working.  You may want to try my audio guide for sitting.  There's one for lying down as well.

4.  Adjust your screen and keyboard:  Make sure that your screen is at eye-level and that your keyboard is placed so that your forearms are parallel to the floor.  It's ok if your hands are a little lower than your elbows, so long as that doesn't lead to slouching.  When tends to be a bigger problem is  when the shoulders go up if the hands are higher than the elbows.

5.  And finally...The happy sitter:  This might seem silly, but smile just a little as you're working.  Just enough so that you lift your cheeks slightly.  Visually this should hardly be noticable.  Aside from smiling possibly affecting your mood in a positive way, it's a good way to energize your face and to help keep you from dropping your head down or pushing your neck forward.

2 Ways to Get on the Right Path to Good Posture

Have you ever tried to learn a new skill or solve a problem and it didn't work, so you gave up?  

I have.

One of my teachers in the theatre program I studied at in college told me that I was holding my shoulders up to my ears.  She wanted me to change that, but she didn't tell me how, so I pulled them down and held them there.  I did this religiously for several days.  I was in so much pain that I was in tears, so I eventually gave up and stopped. 

I knew what end result I wanted (shoulders down), but I didn't have any specific instructions, so all I could do was what I come up with myself (push them down and hold them there).  I had no idea how long to expect it would take for my shoulders to stay down, so I gave up after three days.

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There are many reasons why someone might have difficulty accompishing something and I'm not going to look at all of the reasons.  Instead, here are two key considerations if you're struggling to learn or resolve something...

#1 Take a look at your approach - Maybe you need to do it differently.  The phrase, "If at first you don't succeeed, try try again" needs some tweaking if you keep doing the same thing in the same way to no avail.  If cold air doesn't make water boil, bring the pan inside and try applying heat.  That's obvious, but what if the "how" isn't obvious...then it's time to seek out some guidance.  The simpliest way to solve your problem may be something that you haven't thought of. 

#2 Manage your expectations - If you were just starting to learn a language, how long would you expect it would take be able to carry on a basic conversation?  How about a conversation in a loud restaurant?  Thinking about how much time and persistence will be required can help avoid frustration.  Time and persistence doesn't have to be boring or grueling.  In fact, the journey can be just as satisfying as the result.

Many people come to me for help saying that their attempts to fix their posture aren't working, that they just get stiff and uncomfortable trying to hold themselves in a position.  Often they expect that I'll show them the right position to hold and are suprised (and often relieved) when I don't.

You see, the problem isn't just the poor posture.  The whole idea that the way to fix your posture is to hold your body in a position can lead you down the wrong path.  If you're trying the "positioning" approach, you're like how I was with my shoulders. 

If you truely have good posture, you can sit, stand, and move in a balanced way.  I don't mean balanced like walking a tightrope.  I mean balanced in a way that you stay upright, but feel relaxed, almost as if your body is supporting itself.  Moving so that you stay upright and your hips and shoulders can move...not upright like a robot.

Improving your posture involves...
- Learning to make subtle adjustments that may be much more suble than what you're used to.
- Becoming more aware of your body while you're doing stuff, not just when you stop to practice.
- But at first, make time to stop and practice simple movements and body awareness exercises.  (It doesn't have to be a ton of time.  Sometimes you just lie on the floor.  Consistency is the key for changing postural and movement patterns.)
- Having fun and recognizing that you're uncovering and changing habits that you may not have been aware of.  You're opening up the door to new possibilities by noticing previously unconsious habits. 

And by the way, I "fixed" my shoulders, but it took a much more subtle approach (The Alexander Techique) that felt really good and that I felt motivated to keep working on because of how much better I felt...and my shoulder problem wasn't even JUST about my shoulders. 

A few years later I ran into someone who had been in the college class where my tense shoulders had been pointed out who immediately noticed and pointed out that my shoulders were no longer up to my ears.

How to Avoid Playing Whack-A-Mole with Your Posture

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Do you ever feel like improving your posture or dealing with stress and tension is like a game of whack-a-mole?  You solve one problem, but then another one pops up in it's place?  This might look something like you catching yourself slouching and then pulling your chest up and arching your lower back to try to sit up straight, but then feeling tense or stiff after awhile.

(If you're not familiar with the expression "playing whack-a-mole" it refers to a popular arcade game where mole figurines pop up out of holes on a table and the purpose of the game is to hit them back in the holes with a hammer as quickly as you can, but as soon as you hit one, another appears out of another hole on the table...and so on.)

Watch TV is something I usually don't have time for in my schedule, but now due to the pandemic I've been indulging in a bit of Netflix.  In the current series I'm following, some folks have gotten themselves into a tricky situation and each step to get them out just seems to set off another unexpected problem, all stemming from one bad decision. 

Sometimes the trouble we get into with posture can seem a bit like a television drama, but unlike a life decision that sets a person down a troublesome path, it might not be clear exactly what is setting off the posture problem...or you might know that it has something to do with how you sit at the computer or how you react to a stressful situation, but the details as to how might not be clear.  

Looking at posture from this perspective, I see two keys for getting out of playing postural whack-a-mole.

1) Find the source of the problem...What's the first thing that sets off a chain reaction leading to strain and compression in the body?

2) Address the whole pattern...The expression "playing whack-a-mole" outside of actually playing the arcade game refers to trying to address a problem in a piecemeal way.  If you look at how all of the pieces fit together, you'll have a better chance of solving th puzzle.

In my case, I started taking Alexander Technique lessons as a college student studying acting and I was playing my own game of whack-a-mole trying to deal with issues related to my posture, having scoliosis, and generally feeling restless...plus trying really hard to do what I was being taught in my classes with little success.  I was playing whack-a-mole and taking shots in the dark, trying to basically guess at how to make my body, breathing, voice do what I thought it was supposed to do.  It wasn't until I had the experience of the whole pattern that I was able to actually make the changes I'd been trying so hard to make.

In my lessons and classes, I teach people how to figure out what the source of the issue is and experience how the whole body has it's own postural pattern that you can start to unravel once you begin to pay attention.

How Well Do You "Play the Smart Phone"?

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Have you ever thought of typing or texting like playing a musical instrument?

People who use the computer a lot or spend a lot of time texing often end up with tension in their hands and wrist and even further up the chain in the shoulders and neck that causes them trouble.  Instrumentalist often to as well and I work on the same basic principles of using the hands with violinist, pianist, typists, and texters.  Musicians themselves usually spend a lot of time typing and texting as well.  

Even though this approach to how to move the fingers and hands might be similar for various activities, it tends to resonate differently (literally and figuratively) when applying it to playing music because the sound improves.  If only we could get such feedback from our smartphones and laptops!

I've been told by people close to me and total strangers that I type loudly, but volume is not necessarily the type of feedback I'm looking for!  It's quality.  So how can you assess the quality of your movment when typing and texting?

You might have to pay a little more attention to what you sense with your body and what you see.  Here are two examples that you can try right now.

1.  Pay attention to what you see:  Grab onto your phone or mouse or reach for your keyboard and start typing.  Watch your wrists.  Do you lock them?  Often people generate far more tension in the wrists then is necessary.   You could do a little more work with the hands/fingers and leave the wrists alone.   Doing a little more work with your hands doesn't mean your tensing them in a bad way.  Allow your fingers and hands lengthen toward what you're picking up or reaching for and avoid creating tension that you don't need in your wrists.  If your wrists are tense, you arms and shoulders probably are too.

2.  Pay attention to what you feel:  Though what we feel can at times be unreliable without some guidance, if you pay attention, you can probabably sense if you shoulders tighten or cave in and if your face has dropped or pushed toward your screen.  Can you lift or reach without dropping your upper body?  You may need to move your head down a bit to look at your phone, but try moving down without collapsing.  Collapse in the upper body can often lead the hands and arms to tense to try and hold you up.

Did you realize that the way you use your hands affects your posture?  Play the computer keyboard more like a piano and you may find that you sit better!

For Better Posture At The Computer, Have Eyes In the Back of Your Head

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Did you ever wonder if your parents or your elementary school teachers had eyes in the backs of their heads? 

Either you grew up in a universe desiged by Roald Dahl or the adults around you were demonstrating their abilities to exend their fields of awareness beyond the main things they were focusing on (like the chalkboard or a sink full of dishes).

If you're manuvering through a crowd or playing a team sport, your awareness of the space around you will naturally be heightened compared to when you're working on the computer or texting on your phone.

This would seem like a natural difference, right?  At the computer and on the phone, everything you need to pay attention to is right in front of you.  There aren't any people trying to pass you.  There's no ball coming from behind your or above you.  You're giving attention to what's demanding attention and it's all directly in front of you.

So what's the problem?

Your posture is a result of where your attention is going.   If your attention is intently placed directly in front of you for hours on end, you'll probably end up pulling yourself toward that screen and tensing/slouching even with the most ergonomically sound workspace set-up.

So what to do?

Try an exercise that I've been doing during my online group classes...Pretend you're looking behind you. 

Grow some eyes in the back of your head.  Or in the absence of that, try one of these two things.

1) Picture what's behind you.  Actually think about the window, furniture, stuff, people behind you in the room you're in.  Picture where it is in the space behind you.  Also tune in to your peripheral vision.

2) Listen to sounds around you - Tune into the sounds of traffic, wind, kids, pets, the dishwasher.  Not all of your attention.  Just some of it.

Opening up to the space and stimuli around us helps to keep us from getting sucked into the screen.  Just tune into it.  Not so much that you're distracted.  Put 5% of your attention on picturing the couch or bookcase behind you and listening to the traffic.  

Working from Home?

I hope that you and your families, friends, and loved ones are all safe and manging as best you can.  Day to day life has shifted pretty dramatically over the past week and as I'm managing things for myself and my family and figuring out what the next steps are, I was thinking about what's one way I could help most during this time...and I actually came up with 2 things...

1. Posture in a home work enviroment - Some people work from home often, but not a lot of people might be working from home who may not usually and may not be set up to in a way that supports good posture.

2.  Stress - As an Alexander Technique teacher, I find that the techinque is one of the most useful tools I've ever come across for dealing with stress.  In fact, improving posture and learning to handle stress better can be viewed as one in the same.

In the span of a week, I have fully moved my practice online as things have been shutting down along with the studio in Manhattan where I teach in-person lessons.

I've enjoyed working with folks online for the past few years...something I decided to offer with growing interest from outside of nyc.  It's certainly different, since all cues are verbal and visual.  The principles are the same.  The benefits unique.  

Most of what I typically offer (both private lessons and group classes) are now available online.  You can get an overveiw here.  

Next Tuesday, 3/24, I'll be offering a FREE one-hour online class on posture & reducing stress in your home workspace, which will cover:

  • How to set up a workspace or workspaces in your home environment to encourage good posture and changing position.

  • Cues to maintain awareness of your posture, movement, and breathing throughout the day

  • Simple exercises that you can do when taking a break

  • Tools for dealing with stress and restlessness

  • You’ll also receive a recording of the class for future reference

Visit this page to reserve your seat.  If you need assistance with setting up Zoom, reply to this email.  Also, email me your questions after you register!  That helps me tailor the class to you!

The Habit of Good Posture

How many habits have you be re-evaluating this week?

Have you started to wash your hands more? 

Are you more aware of touching your face?

Does making these sorts of adjustments seem impossible?  Or are these sorts of habits already second nature to you...or something inbetween...

If you live in the state of New York, you may have finally remembered to bring a bag with you to the grocery store after buying a 5th reusuable bag because you forgot again about the plastic bag ban that began on March 1.  (Or was that just me?!)

Washing hands and not touching my face?  Pretty easy.  I used to be a pretty severe germ phob.  I can do that one.  I like to consider myself an environmentalist.  I recycle pretty religously, but I pretty much always forget a bag when I go to the store.  

Your posture and how you move are also habits.  If you pay attetion and you're able to stop before you go into your default pattern, you can start to change the habit.  Sometimes setting timer and having some simple exercises helps as well...so you to reset and remember to practice.

The difference between changing your posture and trying not to touch your face though is that when working on your posture, you might choose certain moments to consciously practice your new habits, gradually making them more instictual, giving yourself time.  In fact, I encourage this.  It makes the process less overwhelming.  

What's so frustrating about the "Don't touch your face," suggestion to avoid germs, is that if it's something you haven't been doing, it might take some time to change the habit.  It's rediculous to think that people will just stop rubbing their eyes in a snap.  Most of the time it's unconscious.

Same with bringing a bag to the store...I had to forget to bring a bag for two weeks in order to finally remember some of the time.  

In my posture lessons and classes, we create a structure together that works for your learning style, so that you make consistent progress, but don't get overwhelmed. 

And the other really important piece that differentiates posture from hand-washing is that proper hand-washing is pretty easy to explain in one or two sentences and even if the instructions may not always be followed, they're simple to implement. 

Posture and movement are a little different.  People usually come to my lessons and classes because they realize that they're trying to correct something and they're not really sure about how to do it and they're not sure if what they perceive as an improvement actually is better. 

They don't just need to correct their posture, they need to learn how to correct it and how to start sensing their posture an movement correctly in their body.  Our habits can make us kinesthetically confused and some guidance can help clear up misconceptions.  

Speaking of habits...How are your work habits Do you procrastinate and struggle with getting things done despite the best of intentions?  Check out this New York Times series by Phyllis Korkki on improving work habits to "help you work more efficiiently and effectively"...Your posture is connected to your ability to stay energized and focused!  Check out the Posture Police mention on Day 3!  I also recommend checking out Phyllis' book, The Big Thing:  How to Complete Your Creative Project Even if You're a Lazy, Self-Doubting Procrastinator Like Me. 

Sofa Shame - Is it the couch or your posture?

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I admit, my couch is a little, well, lumpy.  It was ok when I got it.  It's simple, fit in the room, and turns into a guest bed.  Exactly what I needed...but then my kids stood on it a bunch of times and now there's a crater in one side that you don't notice until you sit on it. 

Sofa shame sets in!

What a couch for a posture coach!...Say that five times fast!

You might have a couch you love or that you love to hate.  In any case, I wonder...how do you sit on it?

Many of my clients come in with another kind of sofa shame...that their posture goes downhill the second they sit on the couch...and sometimes the problem really is the couch, but other times is more about habit and mindset.

Some folks shamefully glance down as they 'admit" that they lounge on the sofa...like it's the sin of good posture.  My version of the "posture police" banishes the myth that to have good posture you have to be stiff and holding yourself up...and part of that is pointing out that it's ok to kick back and lounge.

Lean back into that comfy couch!  Surrender to the fluffiness!

The problem with lounging is that when people think they're relaxing, they're sometimes not really relaxing. 

For example...They're leaning back, but at the same time pulling their shoulders forward or their neck forward...or they might slide down in a way that their lower back is hardly touching any part of the couch and is just being compressed.

What I'm getting at here is that if you're going to lie back on the couch, then REALLY lie back on the couch.  Give into gravity, let it support you!  Don't become a couch potato, but commit to the lounging fully, not half-way!

Now, here's the catch...let's say you try to relax your shoulders back, but they won't relax.  First, don't pull them back!  This is where you might want an intermediary step before getting on the couch...like lying on the floor and letting the shoulders drop (don't pull). 

Try my audio guide for 10 minutes to help you feel more relaxed and integrated in your body before you start movie night, curl up with a book or your laptop.

Yeah, that might sound strange to have a "pre-lounging" routine, but it will probably be easier to give in to the cushiness of the couch if you do this first.

And what if your couch really isn't that great, but you're not quite ready for a new one?  Go for pillows, pillows, and more pillows!  Put them behind you.  Stack them up and lean back on them.  Just make sure you're using the pillows to help support more of your back, whatever position you're in.

So let's recap...
1. Let go of any "posture shame" that you have around lounging on the couch from time to time.
2.  Really lounge.  Relax and be supported by the couch.
3.  If needed, prepare for lounging by lying on the floor (
See here for how.)
4.  If you truely have sofa shame, then until you replace it, use lotsa pillows!